It’s 9am and the kid’s are on the bus to school. It’s a tuesday and you don’t have to be at work till 10:30 today. So you clean up the kitchen. By this time it’s 9:20am and you pick out some clothes for work.

 

It’s a dark blue jeans, favorite blouse and flats kinda day. Oh, yeah — and that cute, gold collar necklace you just bought last week. Perfect.

 

You’re ready to conquer the day.

 

“I’ll just lay down for a few minutes,” you think to yourself. Really, you’re just going to scroll on Instagram for 20 minutes before getting dressed. But as your thumbs type in the passcode to unlock your phone, you remember you didn’t pick out underwear for the day…and then you remember about your Yoni Wand — rose quartz, to be exact.

 

It’s tucked away neatly with your underwear. You’re always so busy you simply forget to use it. Or even when you do think about it, you’re usually too tired. But today…today’s perfect. You look at your phone: 9:31am.

 

You have exactly 19 minutes to yourself before you have to get dressed and dart out to work before traffic.

 

Your stomach begins to tingle lightly as you think about pleasuring yourself. You can feel your yoni begin to moisten. And it starts throbbing warmly. You bite your lip and weigh out your options…and at last, you get up and grab your chic little yoni wand. The next couple minutes are followed by an intense, self-intimate, and soul-rapturing orgasm that leave your bed-sheet partly soaked in your yoni’s divine essence.

 

Over the past 7 years, I’ve been using the yoni wand to help awaken the goddess within me, to strengthen my pelvic walls, for personal pleasure, and even to manifest abundance. Using it has taught me a great deal about self-love and what it really means to be the divine feminine.

 

You’re reading this, so I know one thing about you: you either use a yoni wand or have been thinking about using one. Wherever you’re at on this subject, I want to share with you five self-love principles that using a Yoni Wand taught me…

 

1. You Are A Manifestation of The Divine Feminine

 

Activating self-love comes with the realization that you are a living, breathing manifestation of the Divine Feminine principle.

 

There is something paradigm shifting about knowing that little ol’ you — right here, right now — is a direct reflection of the divine source that nurtures humanity. And in those few moments of personal time, you are able to deeply and intimately take a peak into the wholeness of your divinity.

 

2. Nurture Your Body

 

Fast food. Processed foods. Quick snacks. The hustle-and-bustle of modern day society.

 

Although these foods satisfy your hunger quickly, they your leave body malnourished. Because of that your bodies does not receive the life-source that real foods provide.

 

I was able to notice that when my diet was lacking real, wholesome foods that left me feeling low on energy, foggy-headed, and even lowered my sex-drive.

 

3.  Take Charge Of Your Professional Life

 

Being a mother of three young boys, it was very stressful trying to juggle work, personal, and mommy duties. If you’re a mother, you understand. There’s just never enough time to juggle all the hats you have to wear in a day.

 

Often, I felt powerless and overwhelmed. And it was in those couple minutes of pure me-time with my yoni wand that I felt powerful and fearless.

 

So I decided, it was time to make my life feel like that all the time. Enough was enough. So over time I built an online business that revolves around my passion (women’s sexual health & pussy magic).

 

Looking back, this was the most powerful thing I’ve done for myself. It was challenging, yes. But the amount of confidence, inner-power and personal freedom this little hustle has brought makes me feel like a true wonder woman (and my hubbie loves it).

 

4. “Yesterday Is Gone, Tomorrow Has Not Yet Come…”

 

“…We have only today. Let us begin.” That was Mother Teresa’s wisdom.

 

And the same is true during yoni wand practice. All that matters is that throbbing, pulsating, and ever-blissful “present moment.” That’s it. You’re not thinking about the busy week ahead, the kiddos’ upcoming martial arts tournament, or how there’s never enough time to finally use that gym membership you bought in January.

 

5. Stop Dreaming, Start Doing

 

Paralysis by analysis is real. I used to scour the internet for hours looking up different ways to love my yoni. All the ways I would make my orgasms more powerful. The funny thing is, I would spend more time learning than doing.

 

Wanna know what I discovered? Every woman is different. You will learn more by simply experimenting and figuring your own body out. By listening to your yoni’s caprices and desires. By being intimate and open with yourself.

 

Sometimes we can be our own worst enemies. We let our excuses resound louder than our dreams and goals.  So just pick up your wand and have some self-loving fun!

 

Yoni Wand Cleansing and Charging

 

You should energetically cleanse your wand by cleansing it in a salt water bath, sound (I used a native hand drum) or energy clearing, smudging, or supercharge your crystal wand in the light of the full moon.

Keep in mind to always wash with a mild, natural soap and plenty of clean, warm water after each use of your yoni wand. I like to keep mine in a sacred space that way I can be reminded of it’s healing powers. But I have kids so it often ends up in my underwear drawer (which is fine!).

Lavender and other essential oils are a great, natural antiseptic and will also energetically cleanse your wand (just make sure to use moderate amounts).

All-in-all, it’s the intention that you set before each practice that will cleanse your soul, intensify your orgasms, and allow you to feel like the self-loving goddess you rightfully are.