I recently re-discovered the good ol french kiss, as awkward as it can be to swap spit, tongue wrestle, merge mouths, whatever you call it… it’s actually quite orgasmic.

I’ve been with my significant other for 11 years now and to be honest things started to get a little dull, we simply lost all the passion in our relationship. We still had intercourse, but that was it, wam bam done… The fire, affection and connection didn’t exist.  As we worked on us and our relationship, we re-discovered kissing and that changed it all. Who knew a little kiss could spark things up so much.

Kissing generates a far deeper level of intimacy that invokes an emotional response and energy exchange, it’s aprofound communication by one’s inner spirit to unite with another’s inner spirit. In other words, kissing goes deeper than the physical meeting between two people’s lips. Kissing touches the heart and mind. In kissing, we have the desires of two people to blend.  Kissing allows you to be present in the moment, feeling a union between two expressing a closeness of two hearts.

Lips are the most erogenous zone, where we feel a lot of sensation at even slightest touch. This make them good grounds for pleasure. Sex-drive is guided by the hormone testosterone. Romantic love is guided by dopamine and other “feel-good” hormones. Attachment is felt through chemicals like oxytocin.

Romantic kissing leads to sexual arousal and is often the driving force behind a woman’s decision to have sex with someone. Saliva also contains testosterone  — a sex hormone that plays a role in sexual arousal. The longer and more passionately you kiss, the more testosterone gets released. A rush of emotions will flood your aura

Next time you want to ignite some passion, try kissing, but not just a little peck on lips, I mean a full-on French kiss.